How do I sort out my life?

Jerad R had some great advice. all i can suggest is take it one day at a time, put aside time for YOU, do things that you like, go for a run, watch a fav movie, take a hot shower or bath, anything! but take care of yourself. if things get too much try talking to your parents, maybe they'll understand and have some helpful ideas. but remember that its your life, do the best you can but be prepared to say 'no'if things get too much and people are pressuring you.